Today’s post is brought to you by Christa Smith, an EFT Practitioner and Freedom Coach. For all of my single peeps out there on the dating scene, know that dating can be fun when you do it Law of Attraction Style. If you don’t know by now, I’m all for doing things extraordinarily and outside the norm and Christa highlights how to do just that by using the law of attraction while dating. 
Enjoy!
If traditional dating has not served you well in the past, it is probably because you have been following the mainstream and operating by default.
If you are ready for more positive experiences, it may be time for you to consider taking a different approach.
Life is supposed to be fun and that includes dating. When you have an awareness of the Law of Attraction and how it affects everything in your life, your dating experiences will be more enjoyable and you will have more satisfying outcomes. Throw in the Law of Deliberate Creation and the Law of Allowing into the mix and it becomes a whole new ball game! Get ready for a string of home runs!
Here is what you need to know before and when you enter the dating scene:
Connect with your Source. ”There is no relationship of greater importance to achieve than the relationship between you, in your physical body, right here and now, and the Soul/Source/God from which you have come. If you tend to that relationship first and foremost, you will then, and only then, have the stable footing to proceed into other relationships.” ~Abraham-Hicks
Be the kind of person you want to date. If you have a certain kind of person in mind that you would like to spend time with, or maybe spend your life with, you must be a vibrational match. Law of Attraction says “that which is like unto itself, is drawn.” In other words, if you are not happy with yourself, you will attract dates who are not happy with themselves. Consider the traits you are looking for in a person and if your own current traits will match up. The people you attract will be a mirror of who you are.
Treat yourself and others how you want to be treated. If you want to be treated with respect, be respectful to yourself and those around you. If you want someone who is affectionate, give yourself hugs. If you want someone to whisper sweet nothings in your ear, say words of love and encouragement to yourself. Personal development teacher and author, Louise Hay, advises people to look themselves in the eye every morning in the mirror and say “I love you.” Start loving yourself and you will attract loving people.
Get into the feeling of what you want to experience. Imagine yourself after the date and how you would like to feel. Imagine the chemistry between the two of you, the conversation, the touches, the eye contact. Imagine how these interactions make you feel. The Law of Attraction will yield to you whatever your emotions are so your feelings will draw more of the same to you. This is truly the key to having whatever you want and is worth investing time into mastering.
Let your intention be to have fun. Instead of getting out there with the expectation of finding “the one”, let your goal be to have fun, to feel good, and connect with others for the simple pleasure of enjoying their company. Let go of any agenda and simply go with the flow. This puts you in allowing mode and that’s when “the one” will most likely cross your path.
Follow your inspirations. If you are not feeling inspired to date, then wait. It is your Inner Guidance telling you that you are not yet up to speed with what you want. If you feel inspired to join an online dating site, then do it. Someone who is a vibrational match may be waiting to connect with you. Or your perfect date might be someone in your own back yard who shows up one day at the grocery store, just when you gave up thinking there was anyone worth dating in your area. Be open and stay tuned in to the inspiration your Inner Guidance gives you.
Dating can be a joyful, playful experience that enhances your life and contributes to your personal growth. Just remember to be easy about it, don’t take things too seriously and let your dominant intention be to feel good. The Universe will take care of the rest.
Christa Smith is a Freedom Coach and EFT Practitioner. “I believe…we are spiritual beings having a physical experience. We have the freedom of choice, to do, be or have anything we desire. Freedom, abundance and joy is our birth right. I believe our path in life is to follow our bliss! My mission…is to assist you on the road to freedom.”
If you want to learn how to live life deliberately rather than by default visit her website at: http://www.law-of-attraction-resource-guide.com/index.html
Your turn…
What other ideas do you have for dating in a different approach while still having fun? Please share in the comments!
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Christa! This is so very true!
I made a list of all the things I wanted in a partner. This was before I knew of LOA, which just cracks me up. I got as detailed as possible, including eye color, height, credit score. I filled up the page, margins, every single inch. And taped it to my bathroom mirror to see every morning.
At the time I did it to stay focused, because I kept attracting commitment phobes or people who wanted “friends with benefits” – having that list on my mirror kept me focused.
Today, my partner is everything on that list. He’s even 6′ tall with a near perfect credit score.
Kimberly
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LOL at credit score but girl you know that’s HIGHLY important since finances are being shifted together (or not)!
Awesome for you Kim and so glad that your focus and determination allowed you to get everything you wanted. That’s what it’s all about!
actually i don’t know how to work with that. and i also don’t know how to date somebody. it is overwhelming … i have the feeling i am going to do it wrong
You can’t get it wrong if you stay focused on what you want (write a list like Kimberly did) and let the Universe (God/Source/Spirit) do the rest!
Basically, Helen, my suggestion is to just be you when dating. There is no right or wrong way (except misrepresenting yourself).
Try going in with the idea to have fun and that’s it. If you aren’t having fun, that could mean either the other person isn’t for you or you may need to loosen up yourself, let your hair down, and be you. Either way, don’t force anything to happen. It should happen naturally.
Question: Have you forced any of your current friendships? Dating should be just like getting to know a friend.
Hope that helps!
Love the “fun” focus, Kesha.
This is some true advice in regards to dating. Too often, people have unrealistic expectations. The best thing to do BEFORE dating is to work on yourself first and be the person you want to be in love with. I’m in total agreement with this article.
I’m gonna need you to get out your bullhorn and say this again!!! The people who need to hear this aren’t listening
Too many times, I see people (both men and women) move too fast in relationships and wonder what went wrong, never taking the time to learn about themselves and getting rid of the previous relationship’s baggage before packing up and moving on the next one.
I also think the need to always be with someone could be rooted in the fact that people subconsciously don’t want to discover themselves, afraid of what they may find….hmmm….
~K
The movie “The Secret” exposed lots of people to the basics of the Law of Attraction but it downplayed the hard work that is needed to make things happen. Thinking or affirming things into being is not really how it works. But change is indeed possible if we put our mind to it. It is amazing what can happen when we really set our mind to something and put in the hard work. I continue to be impressed by the power of the universal message of the “New Thought” teachers of the last 100 years, and the relevance of their ideas today. I always go back to William Walker Atkinson’s book “Thought Vibration or the Law of Attraction in the Thought World” when I need a reminder of the power of “mind” and an explanation of how the Law of Attraction REALLY works. Check out the new updated gender neutral edition at http://www.hudsonmohawkpress.com
Awesome, Christa! Whether we get deep into LoA or not, I love the idea of developing ourselves and shaping ourselves in order to meetup with the types of people we want.
I wrote a pretty personal look at some of my relationship history (8 ‘failed’ LTRs
, which you might be interested in:
http://ryzeonline.com/genius-failed-chicks
Thanks again for sharing such insightful stuff, great to see you here at Kesha’s!
J, you know I had to go read the failed LTRs story. Your posts and insights are always VERY interesting to say the least!
~Kesha
And it seems I delivered — you tweeted it and commented!
Thank you 